He is My Soul Mate or Not
Posted by admin on March 7, 2010
He is my soul mate or not? I often meet friends, especially women who often asked about that. They asked whether the current partner is her soul mate, if soul mate why she was not happy? For that, I try to explain it is through this article, which I quote from Dorothy Thompson (Relationship expert and author of three books on the subject of soul mates).
I had a friend tell me not too long ago that she had been with a man for a long time and she was positive she was totally in love with him – and not lust love – and she could not say if he was her soul mate and if he felt the same. She wanted to know she could say, which is one of the most common questions I hear.
“I’m in love, but is it the real thing?”
The real thing. Just what is the real thing and how can you tell?
First of all, if you are in love with someone, he/she is your soul mate, but just as there are varying degrees of love, there are varying kinds of soul mates. It sounded to me like in this woman’s case, it was the companion soul mate to whom she was referring.
All companion soul mates, unless they choose not to for various reasons, involve intimacy on different levels. The other two kinds of soul mates—karmic soul mates and twin souls—rarely involve sexual relations. Hard to believe, but it’s true.
As with all companion soul mates, these people come into your life for a particular reason. Is it for marriage? Is it to produce offspring?
Only you can determine that as the relationship gets further along, but one thing is for sure: he or she is meant to be a part of your life. No two soul mates come together without a purpose. That is how you can differentiate acquaintances you meet in your daily life from people with whom you share a soul mate bond.
If you are in love, you are in love. You feel it, it makes you happy and fulfilled and you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. A natural thing to happen to two people who are soul mates.
However, if further down the road, the two soul mates should part because of differences, that soul mate was still meant to come into your life.
When two people come together as soul mates, there is a purpose for them to do so; but when that purpose has been realized as well as finalized, the two may part but that is not because they weren’t meant to be a part of each other lives.
It is because their mission together on earth has been accomplished.
When this happens, the two begin to feel as if they are drifting apart and they have no idea what is going on. Their inner self is trying to tell them that there are other soul mates out there that they need in their life in order to be complete.
Yes, it may be sad for one or even both partners, but this is the nature of things, especially if you are just starting out in life.
You need to go through the steps necessary to be complete and may take one, or it may take several, soul mates to help you with this, but every last one of them who come into your life are important, and necessary.
Source article : Dorothy Thompson
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Soul mates are sometimes described as being paired opposites, however opposites is a weak term to describe this state of connectedness since it appears to preclude areas where two ‘soul mates’ may be very much alike.
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