4 Signs He’s Hot for You

admin | Nov 30, 2009 | 0 comments

No matter how a type is not enough, he’d rather have his chest waxed as the risk rejected by you. Thus, instead of sticking his neck out with a big come-on, he could work his magic mojo these mysterious ways …

He Teases You
Rewind to the grade school. Are you type has never given a kick in the shins or pulled your ponytail on the playground? Well, when a boy loves a girl, he often acts as a shock to show just how much. And unfortunately, some guys never become too big for these antics basic. Rally Joel*, 22 “The first time I went out with Sara, I kept making fun of his glasses,” he said. “I wasn’t trying to be average. I just wanted a reaction from her.” The caterer? If a guy the bomb, he can take. So, give it to him. Give him good.

He Brags About Himself
If a man laundry-lists his finer points, it’s usually a desperate ploy to win your favor, not a sign his ego requires its own zip code. Men are insecure and often go overboard in an attempt to seem desirable. Prime example? Tom, 28: “I met a girl at a party and immediately blurted out that I spent $4,000 on a new couch,” he says. “I was nervous. I wanted her to think I was successful, but I ended up looking like a tool.” Hot tip: Button up a braggart with a quick compliment such as, “Wow, you must be doing really well.” With any luck, the strategic stroke will help ease him on to a more interesting topic … like you, of course.

He Asks About an Ex
When a guy probes into your past, he’s actually saying, “I hope I have a future with you.” Allow Seth, 30, to explain: “If I can see myself getting serious with a chick, I’ll question her about the last guy she dated,” he says. “I want to be certain I’m not some sucker she’s rebounding with.” So, what to say when pressed about a former flame? Just give enough info to let him know your heart is in the clear — no boyfriend baggage here.

He Turns Down a Date
Ladies, you’re not only playing hard to get. An intriguing stud can pass up a tempting proposition to appear slightly unavailable and hopefully much more attractive. Take it from Jake, 25 “This new girl I was seeing e-mailed me at work and asked if I was free for dinner,” he said. “Although I am dying to see her, I found and told that I had plans. I didn’t want to come across as pathetic.” Now that you know a reluctant Romeo’s secret MO, indulge his game of cat and mouse. Say something like freshly, “OK, maybe another time,” and give him clearance to sue you.